OASIS

AN 8-WEEK JOURNEY FOR WOMEN TO OVERCOME PORN, MASTURBATION, AND OTHER UNWANTED SEXUAL BEHAVIORS.

WE SEE YOU

If porn, masturbation, hookups, or other unwanted sexual behaviors are the secret you hide, it can be hard to feel like a cherished daughter of God. Beloved, precious, forgiven, valued – how can these be true?

When you fight your addiction alone, it is easy to fall back into the same patterns over and over. When you feel you have no one to talk to about your temptation, it’s easy to feel unworthy of forgiveness.

But you are worthy, precious, beloved, and forgiven. Best of all, you aren’t alone.

Over this 8-week transformative journey, you will rewrite your responses to desire, recognize the patterns leading you to temptation, cultivate a deeper connection with Christ, and embrace a future defined by love, acceptance, and freedom.

This journey of healing you deeply desire is not for the fainthearted. And before we go any further, we want to acknowledge your faithfulness and courage – because even if it’s the faintest whisper, and even if you’re deeply discouraged and on the verge of losing hope…

You’re here. You’re saying “I need help with this problem.” The Lord sees that, and He honors it.

OASIS
Here’s What You Get:

  • 8 Teaching Videos
  • Coram Deo reflections
  • Daily Examen
  • Questions for reflection
  • Workbook Resources
  • Scripture/ Meditations
  • Leader’s Guide (for group study)
  • *BONUSES*

Enroll for Individual or Start your own Group

Because of our donors, Manna is provided at no cost to you

$0

We’ve tailored this course specifically for Christian women, and we’ve included a blend of video lessons, Scriptures, meditations, and exercises to help you address and start to rewrite unwanted sexual behaviors.

The goal is for you to complete the course with a strengthened sense of identity as a beloved daughter of Christ, ready to embrace a future filled with divine love and acceptance., and walk in sexual integrity.

Enroll For Coaching Led Group

$150

*Scholarship options Available*

At Oasis, you’ll find a community of women who understand and are ready to walk alongside you as you embark on your path to wholeness. We are here to support you every step of the way.

You can learn more and register for the next upcoming group.

THERE IS A WAY FORWARD, AND WE
WANT TO SHOW YOU WHAT THAT CAN
LOOK LIKE.

We’ve helped hundreds of women co-create this reality with God,
and this is exactly the transformation you’re about to get access to.

“Meeting other women going through similar struggles of same sex attraction and hearing others’ testimony. It reminded me that God does not want me to be alone in my path towards wholeness!”

Mary

“Oasis helped me to face my addictions head on without guilt, shame, and judgment. It transitioned me from hiding inside my cocoon into a butterfly! Thank you.”

Rachael

“Oasis really made a significant difference in my life over the last several weeks through inspiring me to not give up in my fight of pursuing God, the Lord Jesus Christ. I have been struggling with SA for more than 7 years, and I had hit a place where I thought I really didn’t have any hope.”

TracY

“Oasis was a place where I could share about my struggle with pornography without feeling judged, and actually have others understand and care. It was a great way to connect with someone who could be a friend and cheerleader for me during my journey to freedom.”

Teresa

“Oasis was the program I needed when I was close to giving up on finding help. I’ve worked with other coaches and groups before but never felt comfortable sharing my unwanted sexual behaviors. Finding Oasis gave me the courage and space to be open about my struggles with a group of women who understood. For me that was huge.”

Alyssa

“I wish that I had found Oasis sooner. It was so encouraging and gave me hope that I can make progress toward freedom. We as women need more programs like this!!”

Amy

ENTER OASIS


YOUR PATH THROUGH OASIS

SESSION 1: FOUNDATIONS IN FREEDOM

In this week, we’re setting the foundations that will anchor you in the truth of God’s perspective of you and of your sexuality.

In this week, you’ll delve into:

  • Adopting God’s perspective on your redemption and growth
  • Redefining true freedom – it goes beyond what you’re thinking right now

WALK AWAY WITH A RENEWED MINDSET ROOTED IN CHRIST’S FREEDOM AND A CONFIDENT, EMPOWERED PERSPECTIVE AND YOU EMBARK ON THIS JOURNEY.

SESSION 2: INSIGHTS FROM YOUR STORY

It’s easy to think that we just need to ‘fix’ ourselves, but that approach negates and ignores the realities of every single moment you’ve lived through that brought you to this point. By delving into your past and recognizing its influence, you pave the way for a future of intentionality and alignment with God’s heart for you.

In this week you’ll discover how to:

  • Unravel and lovingly explore your story – so you can see how past experiences have shaped your current patterns
  • Avoid straying into crippling introspection, where your reflections hold you back instead of moving forward
  • Affirm God’s faithful, unceasing presence over every single moment of your life, even the moments when you feel things went horribly wrong.

WAK AWAY WITH A DEEPER UNDERSTANDING OF YOUR LIFE NARRATIVE, FOSTERING HEALING AND A RENEWED CONNECTION WITH YOUR OWN STORY AND WITH GOD’S EVERLASTING LOVE.

SESSION 3: RETHINKING DESIRE

Sexuality and our divine design are profoundly interwoven, and the connections are often misrepresented and misunderstood. It’s time to set the record straight and reconceptualize desire as God intended.

In this week, you’ll see:

  • God’s original intent – beyond the surface of ‘that’s for marriage between a husband and wife’ and beyond the culture’s perceptions and misconceptions
  • How to be transparent and open with sharing your desire with Christ (it can feel taboo, or unholy, but that’s not God’s intent)

WALK AWAY WITH A RENEWED PERSPECTIVE ON DESIRE, NO LONGER AS AN EVIL PART OF YOURSELF TO WRESTLE WITH, BUT A GOD-GIVEN DOOR FOR INTIMATE CONNECTION AND RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM.

SESSION 4: RETHINKING TEMPTATION

If we could just avoid temptation, our journey wouldn’t be so difficult, right? But what if you didn’t have to run headlong in the opposite direction when tempted? What if you didn’t have to fear temptation and were empowered to respond, using those moments to deepen and strengthen your relationship with God instead of fearing or succumbing?

In this week, we’ll:

  • Affirm the presence of Christ in moments of temptation and lean into different ways of connecting with Him in those moments
  • Use Jesus’ encounter with temptation as inspiration for your journey

WALK AWAY WITH A PERSONALIZED RESPONSE PLAN, SO YOU CAN START SHIFTING YOUR CURRENT BEHAVIORS, AND ULTIMATELY FEARLESSLY NAVIGATING TEMPTATION BEYOND THESE 8 WEEKS.

SESSION 5: TRUE RECOVERY

Temptation can often feel like free fall with zero control – in that moment everything is going too quickly, it’s all too overwhelming, and you’re destined to fail.

But is there a way that temptation doesn’t have to carry that ‘doomed to fail’ feeling? What does true recovery after a fall and a mess-up look like?

This is what we’ll dive into in this week.

  • Activating a cycle of quick recovery and zero isolation from God in moments where you succumb to temptation
  • Cultivating a new habit of releasing shame

WALK AWAY WITH THE COURAGE AND STRATEGIES TO FACE YOUR MOMENTS OF FAILURE, RECEIVE GOD’S GRACE AND FORGIVENESS, AND RECOVER FROM TEMPTATION IN WAYS THAT CREATE EVEN MORE INTIMACY WITH GOD.

SESSION 6: WARFARE

The truth is that we as Christian women are in a war. That cannot be denied. And in many ways, the battle for our sexuality indicates deep spiritual truths about the war we feet and how we arm ourselves.

In this week, we’ll:

  • Understand the unrelenting nature of our enemy and activate the armor of God in the fight for wholeness in your sexuality
  • Recognize both the subtle and obvious schemes the enemy weaponizes against your sexuality that aim to drag you into isolation and away from God’s love

WALK AWAY EQUIPPED WITH THE DAILY STRATEGIES OF GOD’S ARMOR TO STAND UNWAVERINGLY AGAINST THE ATTACKS OF THE ENEMY, DRAWING STRENGTH FROM GOD’S UNFAILING SUPPORT.

SESSION 7: SURRENDER

We use the words ‘yielding to Christ’ and ‘surrender’ so often in Christianity, but what do these words actually mean on a daily basis in the context of your journey to overcome porn, masturbation, casual hookups, and other unwanted sexual behaviors?

That’s what we’ll examine this week.

  • Breaking the ‘what if’ cycle that keeps you hopeless, thinking things will never change by leaning into God’s promises as divine and practical daily reassurance
  • Experiencing God’s unwavering support instead of the common idea that He is disgusted or repulsed by you, or judging you

WALK AWAY WITH A RENEWED UNDERSTANDING AND PRACTICAL HABIT OF SURRENDER – REPLACING FEARS, WHAT IF’S AND UNCERTAINTIES WITH A CONFIDENT TRUST IN GOD’S DIVINE PLAN FOR YOUR LIFE AND YOUR SEXUALITY.

SESSION 8: LASTING REDEMPTION

This journey of redemption you’re about to go on is so much more than a rapid 8-week transformation program. Rather, this is a deeply lasting shift in the foundations of your sexual identity – creating the core shifts that you can truly build lasting change.

So with that in mind, we’ll close out the program by:

  • Visualizing the journey ahead and setting your expectations of what’s to come
  • Starting to model Christ’s example of forward momentum and resilience, instead of a counterfeit perfection that elevates your capabilities above dependence on Him
  • Celebrating each moment on the journey because each one is an opportunity to draw closer to Christ

WALK AWAY WITH A RICHER AND APPLIED UNDERSTANDING OF WHAT LIFELONG REDEMPTION LOOKS LIKE, AND STEP FEARLESSLY INTO A LIFE THAT DAILY EXPERIENCES THE REGENERATIVE POWER OF CHRIST.

HOW OASIS IS DIFFERENT

COACHING DOES…

  • Provide the space to Discover What’s Broken.
  • Prompt you to Engage your Story.
  • Take steps towards Becoming more Whole.
  • Honor you + your story.
  • Helps husbands to help their wives heal after infidelity.
  • Help you draw closer to God.
  • Teach you how to look back so you can move forward.
  • Create space to hear from the Lord.
  • Teach you to face your fantasies rather than fear them.
  • Allow you to feel seen and heard.
  • Help you discover God’s care in the midst of difficulties.
  • Equip you to respond to temptation by listening instead of lusting.
  • Invites you on a journey of seeing in new ways.
  • Provide recommendations for further reading or outside help.
  • Provide scholarships for those in need.

COACHING DOES NOT…

  • Provide mental health counseling/therapy.
  • Give you a quick fix.
  • Deliver a formula that works for all situations.
  • Do the hard work for you.
  • Give you a list of rules to follow.
  • Take insurance

A FINAL NOTE FROM THE REGENERATION COACHING TEAM

If you’re still here on this page, and you’ve read every word, chances are you’re seriously thinking about enrolling.

We get it. It’s difficult to reach out, especially while you’re wrestling with guilt and shame. We’ve worked with hundreds of women who’ve faced the reality that their broken promises to God and themselves were just too much to carry. But we want to affirm:

You are not alone.

And even this decision to move forward with Oasis or not is one He is ready to support you with if you allow Him. We crafted Oasis because we want women to have access to the structure, perspectives, and personalized strategies that can get them started on their journey of healing with Christ. So if Oasis is the option the Holy Spirit is nudging you toward as you think about your own healing journey – don’t walk away from it. If it’s not, we are always here to support you with our podcast and other content.

Above everything else, we want you to know that we believe in You, and so does your Heavenly Father. He has seen this moment in your life way before you were even a thought in the mind of your parents. He knew you’d be here. And He has gone before you to prepare the way… your decision now is to walk in that way. Take this first step with Him – then the next, and the next.

We promise, one day you’ll find yourself looking at a drastically different life, compared to the habits and behaviors you walked away from.

In love and blessings,

The Regeneration Ministries Team.